I Do.........not think this is a good idea

I think it would be one of the more difficult things in life to attend a friend's wedding, whose marriage you don't support or see working out. Its hard enough to watch friends enter into relationships that don't seem right, let alone committing your forever to that person. But I'm worried that's what you're gonna make me do. I'm worried you're going to invite me to watch you make the biggest mistake of your life. When the invitation comes, because I'm guessing it will, I'm just going to cry. I'm going to cry for the difficult and less than ideal future you are choosing for yourself. I wish I could understand your choice, that would make this easier. Before the aisle and bells and vows I need you to explain to me what you see in that person. I've tried to figure it out on my own....but thus far nothing about them adds up to "The One". The whole situation gets me so riled up everything time I think about it. I pray that either my eyes are opened to the passionate, kind, personable, smart, Godly side of this person that I have never seen before. Or I'm praying that you have a change in heart....soon. And I'll admit that lately my prayers have more often resembled the latter.